Many people are emotionally crippled by painful memories. Their lives are miserable today becuase of the things that happened long ago. Resolve this: to let them have no more power over you. You say, "Sure. That SOUNDS good.   But how do I do it?" Here’s how:  You starve them out.  You do this by refusing [...]

Usually when I speak to parents about not being selfish, they begin to think about how they are going to work with their child. They are quite surprised when, as the discussion continues, they figure out that I am not teaching them how to help their child not be selfish, but instead, teaching THEM not [...]

  Want to be more highly valued…more highly compensated in the workplace? Become an expert at getting along effectively with ALL types of people. Not just the ones who are easy for you to like.  Anybody can get along with this group. Learn to appreciate, to value, and to enjoy ALL different types of people [...]

Turn on the news for just a few seconds and you will hear of somebody in huge trouble because they have broken the rules. Why have they done this?  Because they expected to find some excitement, some hapiness…OUTSIDE of the rules. Life is a banquet…a feast…for those who focus on staying INSIDE the rules! You [...]